tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3965785728452680588.post4716492293543485168..comments2023-12-06T23:17:46.792-07:00Comments on Mi Casa: A Life Well Lived ♥ ...Becahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07024493869226636181noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3965785728452680588.post-78355304478791210532016-11-30T15:19:48.782-07:002016-11-30T15:19:48.782-07:00Glad you could get to be together. I don't kn...Glad you could get to be together. I don't know if it gets easier, but I do think that you learn to live with a new normal. Not sure that is easier, just different and yes, you do come to terms with different. It takes time, but it will come when it is the right time for it to come. Hugs in the meantime. xxAmy at love made my homehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17111180584250029433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3965785728452680588.post-68362154740466514252016-11-28T18:32:30.929-07:002016-11-28T18:32:30.929-07:00What a lovely celebration for your dear Father! I ...What a lovely celebration for your dear Father! I love that your whole family gathered together with photos and good food to honor his birthday. The red balloons were extra special, too. As you know, I lost both of my parents within a year of each other (5 and 4 years ago) and that is one reason I started my blog - to help ease the pain and loneliness I felt. It does get better, but it does take time. I kept finding feathers and coins and would actually see people that looked exactly like them when I was out and about! I took it as a sign that they were always watching over me and always with me when I needed them. I still think of them every single day, but now it is with happiness - remembering the good things and honoring the things they taught me. It will take a few months for that pain in your heart to ease and I can't say it will ever completely go away, but it does get better, I promise. Be good to yourself. Sending hugs xo KarenKaren @ Beatrice Euphemiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08631972741518142563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3965785728452680588.post-89273023573268165812016-11-27T22:20:26.535-07:002016-11-27T22:20:26.535-07:00That's a nice way to get together for emotiona...That's a nice way to get together for emotional bonding with the family but again the loss always stays. I lost my father at 65 due to sudden cardiac arrest and he did not have any complications and was the fittest person at home. It came as a shock and helplessness of being of no use or help for him at that time. It took me four years to accept and live with that and even today the situation is not much better. I try to convince my heart in different ways by doing something and letting go of some thoughts by telling myself that I have got a family to look after and can't just live in sorrow all the time. I need to socialise with people and bring a smile on my face like a normal person. That is life, it has to continue. We need to turn our parents love into energy and courage because definitely they don't want to see us sit and cry. Preetihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14719450107640709790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3965785728452680588.post-21694128735955763392016-11-27T07:29:35.615-07:002016-11-27T07:29:35.615-07:00I thought the early grieving (the first year) afte...I thought the early grieving (the first year) after my dad died was sweetly spiritual. The grief washed over me and it felt so foreign to me. I was grateful for the healing and the pondering that went on. God be with you as you think of your daddy and his impact on your life. What a gorgeous celebration you had. He smiled in heaven, I'm sure. Pom Pomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01524994024698986829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3965785728452680588.post-33423921930292154232016-11-27T00:02:14.034-07:002016-11-27T00:02:14.034-07:00Definitely takes time and will get easier but, of ...Definitely takes time and will get easier but, of course, the emotions will always be there, just different. Looks like it was a wonderful gathering to remember your dad. Great to have the restaurant to host everyone. Best wishes, TammyTammy@T's Daily Treasureshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01474928708908027789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3965785728452680588.post-53595140759038500642016-11-26T08:58:00.087-07:002016-11-26T08:58:00.087-07:00Great time spent !
Have a nice weekend !
AnnaGreat time spent !<br />Have a nice weekend !<br />AnnaAnnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04774887724789015500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3965785728452680588.post-16537296572053823142016-11-26T08:06:47.840-07:002016-11-26T08:06:47.840-07:00I am not sure it does get any better you just lear...I am not sure it does get any better you just learn to live with your loss. Sounds like a wonderful celebration of your dear Dads life and a great tribute from all of your family.mamasmercantilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14011278973985658118noreply@blogger.com